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The Most Disappointing Meal I Ever Had!

May 2, 2025

Let me start by saying I have tremendous respect for restaurant workers (and all service employees). I know the jobs aren’t easy, and a lot of hard work goes into everything they do. So this post isn’t meant to demean employees themselves or hurt anyone’s feelings. Maybe we just happened to go on an off-night. Maybe we didn’t order the right things. Maybe other factors were taking place that we didn’t see.

Whatever the case may be, if you’re going to spend more than $300 on a meal, you’d expect everything to be above and beyond. But that simply wasn’t the case at a recent dinner at Lita in Aberdeen.

Lita’s is a modern Iberian restaurant that took over the space of what used to be Eli’s, a beloved bagel place in my favorite strip mall in the Armpit of America. It’s received several awards and been on countless “best restaurants” lists. Everyone seems to have nothing but wonderful things to say about this place, but unfortunately, I do not understand why. Everything from the service to the food was such a let down. I’d much rather prefer a bagel from what it used to be.

When the chef is waiting tables…you know there might be a problem

Interestingly, there’s a blurb on the menu about how the entire staff is cross-trained on each role and how they all rotate positions each week. While this sounds good in theory — to ensure equal pay and remove the hierarchical drama in restaurants — I think this might explain some of the disappointment. I mean, if you have different people cooking the food each week, I’d think it would be hard to maintain the same level of quality.

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My Hometown(s)

January 20, 2014

The world is full of “twin cities” – two cities side by side that are essentially one. Just consider St. Paul and Minneapolis in Minnesota, Dallas and Fort Worth in Texas, and Buda and Pest in Hungary. But, New Jersey, and more specifically, northern Monmouth County, is home to its own pair of cities forever linked together for better or worse. I’m talking about Matawan and Aberdeen, or if you prefer, Aberdeen and Matawan. Not only is/are it/they the most famous twin cities on this side of the Mississippi, but it/they is/are the town(s) in which I grew up.

Matawan Region HS

Matawan Regional High School…located in Aberdeen

I won’t bore you with the full  history of Matawan and Aberdeen, but just know that Matawan is officially known as Matawan Borough, and Aberdeen was originally called Matawan Township, until 1977 when residents voted to change the name to avoid confusion. Interestingly, Wikipedia tells me that the name Aberdeen was chosen so the town could appear first alphabetically of all the municipalities in the Armpit of America. Given the nature of the two towns, that is quite understandable. You see, Matawan is the older of the two and is full of history; it’s been around since the Revolutionary War and has seen a lot of action since then. Most prominent, the town was one site of the infamous shark attacks that plagued the shore in 1916. As for Aberdeen, it is the much more boring of the two, notable for absolutely nothing. (more…)